The first meeting is for gathering information, not for proving destiny.
Before you go
Agree a public place. Share the details with someone you trust. Arrange your own transport there and back. Keep your phone charged.
During
Stay in public. Watch how the person treats staff and strangers. Notice whether they pressure you to drink more, leave sooner or move somewhere less visible. End the meeting early if you want to.
Afterwards
Check in with the person who knows where you are. You do not owe your date an immediate decision about meeting again.
Spiritual chemistry is not a reason to skip these steps. If anything, the language of fate and connection can make people override ordinary caution. Do not.